While you may not think you’re extraordinary… you are. Your life is imbued with experiences that weave a unique thread, rich with potential to inspire, inform, and encourage your loved ones – and future generations. When we’re not invited to record our stories, those firsthand remembrances vanish like breath on a mirror. Taking the time to record your memories, or even helping someone special to document theirs, is an act of gratitude that honors and preserves legacy. It need not be time consuming, comprehensive, or perfect, nor is it the prerogative of the wealthy, well-known, or powerful. Legacy belongs to each of us, and we can take small, simple steps to preserve it.
Documenting firsthand memories can be as simple as taking just an hour to have a conversation and record what is said. Many people use Five Wishes as a legacy document, by recording their memoirs in Wish 5: “What I Want My Loved Ones To Know.” The answer can span a paragraph, pages, or even a collection of journal entries composed over time. If you want to go a step further, you can create a fully fledged legacy story by sitting down with a loved one with a list of questions and a smartphone. We've provided some sample questions to give you a head start; use them as they are, or write your own!
Great Interview Questions
Many meaningful conversations take place at the table. With advance notice and everyone’s permission, you could have questions and a video camera on hand at the next family dinner gathering. The interview can be as formal or relaxed as you wish. For some, a quiet coffee shop or the privacy of your living room can be the a perfect spot.
If you plan to conduct a recorded interview, we've put together a free guide that offers easy tips and best practices. Many of the organizations included in our list below, provide detailed advice as well. Again, make this as organized or spontaneous as you'd like.
Interview How-ToSo many amazing organizations are helping preserve and proclaim life stories. Learn more about some of our favorites.
Not everyone has the financial or family means to ensure their legacy is shared, or that their wishes at life’s end are followed.
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